In my current job of credit restoration I come across a lot of people these days who are starting over in life due to the economy, being laid off, separating from their spouse, lost their home and had to do a short sale, their job has become "outdated" or several other circumstances in which life has thrown them a blow. This can be a difficult path to walk.
And to those people I have to say this.... Don't give up!!!
I know it sucks. And I know it sucks because I have been in those same shoes. I use to have my own business selling wine gifts, promotional items, etc. And then one day I realized I could not keep financing the whole operation and I had to close up shop. I was forced to declare bankruptcy and so I know that feeling in the stomach that you get when it all comes rushing in like a huge wave that you did not see coming and it knocks you off your ass, you feel like you have to throw up, you get light headed, your throat hurts, your eyes are red, and you can't sleep because you are so worried. So I do get it because I walked in these shoes and I know how difficult it is to wake up and be optimistic. I know what it is like to feel like there is no one to talk to and everyone seems to be so negative which only makes it harder to cheer up.
One thing that has helped my continuous journey building my life back and helping lift my spirits is reading books on marketing and sales. I know that might seem strange but reading books which have uplifting solutions, positive messages, and ways to rebuild my life... have been a great source of energy for me. Sorry, but when it came to getting advice from family and friends it seemed never available. But with the books I found refuge and a way to fight back and regain my life. I am not saying this is the only solution of course, but it is one small step you might consider if you are walking on that path right now.
More to come... Keep fighting and don't give up. You can do this! We can do this!
Excellent commentary. Thought provactive.
ReplyDeleteThank you Steven for your comment. I appreciate it.
ReplyDeleteOne key factor in rebuilding your life back is stay proactive! You need to keep taking steps to move forward even if they are small steps. Try to keep improving your skill sets. Before you know it you will be stronger in new areas which can lead to more opportunities. Don't let your past define you, let your actions define you.
ReplyDeleteI just came accross this in Linkedin when I was actually wondering what I want from Life from my career when I gave up and decided to stick on just for the heck of it... Nice Post...I need to think again now!
ReplyDeleteCheers,
Suji
Don't give up Sujitha. Keep educating yourself as much as you can. Have you read Rich Dad Poor Dad books by Robert Kiyosaki? I like to read a lot and keep striving to improve myself as much as I can. You can do it!
ReplyDeleteAlso books by David Bach such as "Start Late, Finish Rich" is an excellent book to read. Great ideas on organizing and getting your finances under control.
ReplyDeleteI believe he just came out with a new book... "Debt Free for Life" by David Bach. I plan to pick this book up myself. I can't wait to read it.